Salt and Pepper
11-19-2009, 06:15 PM
Those of you who are wondering why I haven't been active here, and why I have only made 5 posts here so far...
Well let me just point out to ya that it's not because I've abandoned nor is it that I've been too busy, actually, I really don't have much going on at all right now (embarrassing to say, at the least). I've been a bit too sleepy and lazy to reach the computer lately here, so by the time I do feel to have the energy someone else is already on it before me. And when I do make it to the computer, it may come to the point that I feel so zipped that I don't even bother staying on long. I simply check my e-mails and any other interesting updates, and then log straight off.
But the main reason to explain my inactivity here is, that I don't really know how to fully relate to some recent threads. So, often I go and check out the older threads. I mean, as much as I would like to reply to some of the latest threads, and be more active than I've been here, I'm not one who makes a post for the sake of posting. When I post, I normally like to have something with a point or meaningful to say, or at least something that's on the subject with the thread. Also I feel quite socially awkward at times, so I tend to think about what I say before I post, and often, I tend to overthink. Certainly, I don't want to make a post only to have people give me a direct disdain and ask me what "my point" is. That would make the awkwardness twice as worse and not exactly good on my self-esteem either!
But with that said, I promise I'll try to be more active here though I can't guarantee, or perhaps, won't. But also keep in mind that I'm not going to be one of those users who goes around making an amount of random and pointless posts just to advance their status, I intend to taking my time here.
So anywho, sorry if this thread turns out to be a big waste of space, just wanted to clarify things just in case any of you thought I have abandon and forgotten about this site!
Note: Please keep in mind, that this is a person behind the computer and not some flawless "cyborg". So, yes, there will be some misspells and typos in my posts and some things I will miss here occasionally, so kinda spare me the overdo of ragging and especially none of the condescending stuff. I will do just fine without any of that. Thanks!
Well let me just point out to ya that it's not because I've abandoned nor is it that I've been too busy, actually, I really don't have much going on at all right now (embarrassing to say, at the least). I've been a bit too sleepy and lazy to reach the computer lately here, so by the time I do feel to have the energy someone else is already on it before me. And when I do make it to the computer, it may come to the point that I feel so zipped that I don't even bother staying on long. I simply check my e-mails and any other interesting updates, and then log straight off.
But the main reason to explain my inactivity here is, that I don't really know how to fully relate to some recent threads. So, often I go and check out the older threads. I mean, as much as I would like to reply to some of the latest threads, and be more active than I've been here, I'm not one who makes a post for the sake of posting. When I post, I normally like to have something with a point or meaningful to say, or at least something that's on the subject with the thread. Also I feel quite socially awkward at times, so I tend to think about what I say before I post, and often, I tend to overthink. Certainly, I don't want to make a post only to have people give me a direct disdain and ask me what "my point" is. That would make the awkwardness twice as worse and not exactly good on my self-esteem either!
But with that said, I promise I'll try to be more active here though I can't guarantee, or perhaps, won't. But also keep in mind that I'm not going to be one of those users who goes around making an amount of random and pointless posts just to advance their status, I intend to taking my time here.
So anywho, sorry if this thread turns out to be a big waste of space, just wanted to clarify things just in case any of you thought I have abandon and forgotten about this site!
Note: Please keep in mind, that this is a person behind the computer and not some flawless "cyborg". So, yes, there will be some misspells and typos in my posts and some things I will miss here occasionally, so kinda spare me the overdo of ragging and especially none of the condescending stuff. I will do just fine without any of that. Thanks!